Sympathy

n. kind, thoughtful warm

What it means

Understanding and concern for another person's difficulty.

Reach for it when naming understanding and concern for another person's pain, loss, or difficulty

His sympathy was matched by practical support.

Words to choose between 7

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
warm
professional
formal
literary
  • everyday

    concern

    Fits when care about someone's welfare is the straightforward point

    Careful Concern can arise from risk or responsibility without sharing their sadness.

  • everyday

    support

    Fits when practical or emotional help matters more than the feeling itself

    Careful Support can be offered from duty without genuine sympathy.

  • warm

    compassion

    Fits when concern also motivates a wish to relieve suffering

    Careful Compassion is stronger and more active than every expression of sympathy.

  • professional

    empathy

    Fits when entering the person's perspective is the key distinction

    Careful Sympathy can care from outside; empathy claims a closer understanding of feeling.

  • professional

    understanding

    Fits when recognizing the person's reasons or feelings matters

    Careful Understanding can be intellectual and need not include emotional concern.

  • formal

    condolence

    Fits when expressing sympathy after a death or grave loss

    Careful Condolence is too specific for illness, frustration, or ordinary hardship.

  • literary

    fellow feeling

    Fits when shared humanity or experience creates connection

    Careful The phrase sounds elevated and may imply more common experience than exists.

Opposites 3

  • indifference
  • callousness
  • hostility

Common phrases 3

  • deepest sympathy

    The association sent its deepest sympathy to the bereaved family.

  • express sympathy

    Neighbors gathered to express sympathy after the fire.

  • gain sympathy

    The honest account helped the displaced workers gain sympathy without losing dignity.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Dvortygirl, California accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 3.0 Updated