Sympathetic

adj. kind, thoughtful warm

What it means

Showing understanding and caring concern for another person's difficulty or feeling.

Reach for it when praising a listener or response that recognizes distress without taking it over

The sympathetic manager listened to the full account before discussing the missed shift.

How strong it is

  1. subtle FondSympathetic
  2. noticeable CaringAffectionate
  3. strong TenderConnected
  4. intense TrustingCompassionate
  5. peak LovingDevoted

Sympathetic is subtle (1 of 5) among the warmth words, from subtle to peak. The scale compares words; it does not measure a person. All warmth words

Words to choose between 8

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
warm
professional
formal
  • everyday

    understanding

    Fits when grasping the person's circumstances reduces judgment

    Careful Understanding can be intellectual and need not include emotional concern.

  • warm

    caring

    Fits when ongoing concern for well-being matters

    Careful Care can exist without understanding this particular difficulty.

  • warm

    compassionate

    Fits when concern includes a strong wish to relieve suffering

    Careful Compassion is deeper and more action-oriented than every sympathetic response.

  • warm

    considerate

    Fits when concern shapes courteous action

    Careful Consideration may follow manners or foresight rather than shared feeling.

  • professional

    empathetic

    Fits when entering or accurately grasping another's felt perspective is central

    Careful Empathy need not include agreement or the benevolent concern of sympathy.

  • professional

    receptive

    Fits when willingness to hear the concern is all that is known

    Careful Listening openly does not yet establish sympathetic feeling.

  • professional

    supportive

    Fits when practical or emotional help strengthens the person

    Careful Support can be effective without the helper feeling sympathy.

  • formal

    humane

    Fits when treatment protects dignity and minimizes suffering

    Careful Humane is a standard of conduct and may sound impersonal in a card.

Opposites 3

  • unsympathetic
  • callous
  • indifferent

Common phrases 3

  • sympathetic person

    A sympathetic person, Nelu made room for both anger and embarrassment.

  • sympathetic ear

    The exhausted volunteer needed a sympathetic ear before considering solutions.

  • sympathetic response

    Her sympathetic response acknowledged the fear without promising an easy outcome.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Dvortygirl, American accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 3.0 Updated