Fellow feeling

n. kind, thoughtful warm

What it means

Shared sympathy and understanding for another person's experience.

Reach for it when naming humane identification rather than detached concern

Hard years had given the neighbors genuine fellow feeling.

Words to choose between 7

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
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  • everyday

    sympathy

    Fits when concern for another's difficulty is the main response

    Careful Sympathy can remain one-sided and need not arise from common experience.

  • warm

    compassion

    Fits when suffering prompts a wish to help

    Careful Compassion can flow across difference without fellow identification.

  • warm

    kinship

    Fits when similarity creates a natural connection

    Careful Kinship may be felt without understanding the person's hardship.

  • professional

    empathy

    Fits when understanding another person's perspective is central

    Careful Empathy does not always include affection or shared identity.

  • professional

    rapport

    Fits when easy mutual understanding develops in conversation

    Careful Rapport may be pleasant but shallow.

  • professional

    solidarity

    Fits when shared interests lead to practical support

    Careful Solidarity is public and political more often than intimate.

  • literary

    communion

    Fits when profound shared feeling deserves an elevated term

    Careful Communion can carry religious meaning.

Opposites 3

  • indifference
  • alienation
  • callousness

Common phrases 3

  • sense of fellow feeling

    The shared task created a sense of fellow feeling among the crews.

  • fellow feeling with

    Her years abroad gave her fellow feeling with newly arrived students.

  • genuine fellow feeling

    Genuine fellow feeling turned polite concern into practical help.

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