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Unpretending

adj.calm, kindliterary

What it means

Modest and genuine, with no effort to seem grander or more important.

Reach for it when Praising a person, place, or style for unaffected simplicity.

The unpretending guesthouse offered clean rooms, good bread, and local advice.

Choose between these

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  • everyday

    plain

    simplicity of appearance matters

    not when can sound critical rather than affectionate

  • everyday

    unpretentious

    the most direct modern equivalent

    not when can describe style without implying personal sincerity

  • warm

    modest

    lack of self-display is the main praise

    not when may also suggest limited size or quality

  • warm

    unassuming

    a person does not seek attention

    not when less natural for a building or meal

  • formal

    unaffected

    manner is free from artificial display

    not when can also mean unchanged by an event

Said against

3
  • pretentious
  • showy
  • affected

It naturally appears in

3
  • unpretending manner

    Her unpretending manner encouraged frank questions from apprentices.

  • unpretending charm

    The cottage's unpretending charm came from well-used local stone.

  • quiet and unpretending

    Their celebration was quiet and unpretending, but deeply joyful.

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