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Modest

adj.calm, thoughtfulwarm

Meaning 1

Not inclined to boast or claim more importance than is deserved.

Reach for it when praising restrained self-presentation without asking someone to hide real achievement

She remained modest while clearly explaining her part in the discovery.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    down-to-earth

    when approachable lack of pretension deserves informal praise

    not when The idiom concerns manner and can stereotype polished people as less genuine.

  • warm

    humble

    when lack of self-importance is the central praise

    not when Humble can reward self-erasure or imply low status.

  • warm

    unassuming

    when someone does not demand notice or impose on others

    not when Unassuming describes presentation and may hide substantial confidence.

  • professional

    reserved

    when expression or social manner is restrained

    not when Reserve may come from privacy or discomfort rather than modesty.

  • formal

    self-effacing

    when someone deliberately minimizes personal credit

    not when Self-effacement can be unhealthy or misleading when accurate ownership matters.

Meaning 2

Limited in size, amount, ambition, or display.

Reach for it when describing a small but real scale without dismissing its value

A modest improvement removed the longest delay in the process.

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  • everyday

    small

    when physical size or amount should be direct

    not when Small is neutral and can understate meaningful effect.

  • warm

    unpretentious

    when style or surroundings avoid showy display

    not when Unpretentious judges social signaling, not actual size or cost.

  • professional

    limited

    when scope or amount has a clear boundary

    not when Limited can sound negative and does not imply adequacy.

  • professional

    moderate

    when amount sits between low and high extremes

    not when Moderate may be larger than modest and lacks the sense of deliberate simplicity.

  • formal

    restrained

    when decoration, spending, or expression is deliberately controlled

    not when Restrained can feel severe and may reflect constraint rather than choice.

Said against

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  • boastful
  • pretentious
  • lavish
  • substantial

It naturally appears in

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  • modest person

    The modest person still accepted credit for the work she had led.

  • modest amount

    A modest amount of funding covered the essential repairs.

  • modest improvement

    The modest improvement saved several minutes on every visit.

  • relatively modest

    The building's footprint is relatively modest for its capacity.

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