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Thick-skinned

adj.resilient, thoughtfuleveryday

What it means

Able to receive criticism or hostility without losing composure or purpose.

Reach for it when praising resilience to judgment while leaving room for empathy and useful feedback

The thick-skinned director separated the harsh tone from the valid warning in the letter.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    hard-boiled

    when worldly emotional toughness suits a colorful description

    not when Hard-boiled carries cynical, old-fashioned, or crime-fiction associations.

  • everyday

    tough

    when strength through adversity deserves a short direct word

    not when Tough can imply hardness toward others rather than protection from their judgment.

  • warm

    unflappable

    when visible calm under provocation is what observers noticed

    not when Unflappable concerns outward composure and may conceal private hurt.

  • professional

    resilient

    when recovery from many kinds of pressure is the broader strength

    not when Resilient does not specifically address sensitivity to criticism.

  • formal

    impervious

    when criticism appears to have no effect at all

    not when Impervious is nearly absolute and can suggest refusal to listen.

  • literary

    stoic

    when pain is endured without complaint

    not when Stoic describes restraint more than healthy processing of criticism.

Said against

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  • thin-skinned
  • oversensitive
  • easily discouraged

It naturally appears in

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  • be thick-skinned

    A public advocate must be thick-skinned without becoming closed-minded.

  • thick-skinned enough

    She was thick-skinned enough to hear the complaint and curious enough to investigate it.

  • thick-skinned campaigner

    The thick-skinned campaigner kept her answer factual and calm.

Where this comes from

Thick-skinned is positive only when resilience does not become indifference to harm or feedback.

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.