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Tend

v.kind, thoughtfuleveryday

What it means

To give attentive care to a person, living thing, place, or responsibility.

Reach for it when describing steady hands-on care that keeps someone or something well

During the heatwave, neighbors tend the saplings before sunrise.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    mind

    when brief supervision fits regional, informal speech

    not when Mind can mean obey or remember, and its caregiving sense is not universal.

  • everyday

    look after

    when temporary responsibility should sound natural

    not when Looking after can be supervisory without the active maintenance of tending.

  • warm

    care for

    when concern and practical attention belong together

    not when Care for may also mean liking something, so the intended action can be ambiguous.

  • warm

    nurture

    when care supports gradual growth or development

    not when Nurture adds a developmental purpose that routine tending may not have.

  • professional

    maintain

    when preserving the condition of equipment or grounds is central

    not when Maintain is impersonal and unsuitable for affectionate human care.

  • formal

    attend to

    when a need or duty receives prompt, focused action

    not when Attend to can describe a single response rather than continuing care.

  • literary

    minister to

    when compassionate service to a person in distress merits elevated language

    not when Minister to sounds religious or archaic in ordinary caregiving.

Said against

3
  • neglect
  • abandon
  • ignore

It naturally appears in

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  • tend a garden

    Retired residents tend a garden beside the clinic.

  • tend the injured

    Volunteer medics tend the injured until transport arrives.

  • carefully tend

    The keeper will carefully tend each rescued hedgehog.

Where this comes from

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.