Tend

v. kind, thoughtful everyday

What it means

To give attentive care to a person, living thing, place, or responsibility.

Reach for it when describing steady hands-on care that keeps someone or something well

During the heatwave, neighbors tend the saplings before sunrise.

Words to choose between 7

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
playful
everyday
warm
professional
formal
literary
  • playful

    mind

    Fits when brief supervision fits regional, informal speech

    Careful Mind can mean obey or remember, and its caregiving sense is not universal.

  • everyday

    look after

    Fits when temporary responsibility should sound natural

    Careful Looking after can be supervisory without the active maintenance of tending.

  • warm

    care for

    Fits when concern and practical attention belong together

    Careful Care for may also mean liking something, so the intended action can be ambiguous.

  • warm

    nurture

    Fits when care supports gradual growth or development

    Careful Nurture adds a developmental purpose that routine tending may not have.

  • professional

    maintain

    Fits when preserving the condition of equipment or grounds is central

    Careful Maintain is impersonal and unsuitable for affectionate human care.

  • formal

    attend to

    Fits when a need or duty receives prompt, focused action

    Careful Attend to can describe a single response rather than continuing care.

  • literary

    minister to

    Fits when compassionate service to a person in distress merits elevated language

    Careful Minister to sounds religious or archaic in ordinary caregiving.

Opposites 3

  • neglect
  • abandon
  • ignore

Common phrases 3

  • tend a garden

    Retired residents tend a garden beside the clinic.

  • tend the injured

    Volunteer medics tend the injured until transport arrives.

  • carefully tend

    The keeper will carefully tend each rescued hedgehog.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Dvortygirl, American accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 3.0 Updated