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Self-possessed

adj.calm, resilientformal

What it means

Calmly in command of one's feelings and behavior, especially under pressure.

Reach for it when praising composed presence without suggesting emotional coldness

The self-possessed witness asked for the question to be repeated before answering.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    unflappable

    when almost nothing seems able to disturb the person

    not when Unflappable is stronger and may suggest unrealistic emotional invulnerability.

  • everyday

    collected

    when a person regains orderly thought after disruption

    not when Collected often describes a temporary state rather than a steady trait.

  • warm

    poised

    when calm confidence also appears graceful

    not when Poise emphasizes presentation and may reward polish over honesty.

  • warm

    steady

    when dependable emotional balance matters

    not when Steadiness may be quiet support without the alert command of self-possession.

  • professional

    assured

    when confidence is the feature others notice

    not when Assurance can coexist with impulsive or poorly regulated behavior.

  • professional

    composed

    when outward calm during pressure is the observable quality

    not when Composure may be brief and can conceal intense inner distress.

  • literary

    equanimous

    when evenness of mind amid changing fortune is exact

    not when Equanimous is rare and more philosophical than social.

Said against

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  • flustered
  • agitated
  • discomposed

It naturally appears in

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  • self-possessed manner

    Her self-possessed manner gave the frightened passengers confidence.

  • remain self-possessed

    He managed to remain self-possessed while the plan changed around him.

  • calm and self-possessed

    The advocate stayed calm and self-possessed through hostile questions.