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Restraint

n.calm, thoughtfulformal

What it means

Deliberate control that prevents excessive action, expression, or force.

Reach for it when praising proportionate self-control rather than passivity

The mediator showed restraint and let the angry speaker finish.

Choose between these

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  • everyday

    self-control

    a person governs an impulse

    not when Self-control is personal, not stylistic.

  • warm

    moderation

    excess is avoided through balance

    not when Moderation concerns degree more than inhibition.

  • professional

    discipline

    trained control supports a goal

    not when Discipline is broader and sustained.

  • formal

    reserve

    expression remains measured

    not when Reserve can seem emotionally distant.

  • literary

    forbearance

    someone patiently declines retaliation

    not when Forbearance specifically involves provocation.

  • literary

    understatement

    artistic expression avoids excess

    not when Understatement is a style, not impulse control.

Said against

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It naturally appears in

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  • show restraint

    Both sides showed restraint during the tense march.

  • exercise restraint

    Editors exercised restraint with the graphic images.

  • admirable restraint

    Her admirable restraint kept the criticism fair.

Where this comes from

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.