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Restraint

n.calm, thoughtfulformal

What it means

Deliberate control that prevents excessive action, expression, or force.

Reach for it when praising proportionate self-control rather than passivity

The mediator showed restraint and let the angry speaker finish.

Choose between these

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  • everyday

    self-control

    a person governs an impulse

    not when Self-control is personal, not stylistic.

  • warm

    moderation

    excess is avoided through balance

    not when Moderation concerns degree more than inhibition.

  • professional

    discipline

    trained control supports a goal

    not when Discipline is broader and sustained.

  • formal

    reserve

    expression remains measured

    not when Reserve can seem emotionally distant.

  • literary

    forbearance

    someone patiently declines retaliation

    not when Forbearance specifically involves provocation.

  • literary

    understatement

    artistic expression avoids excess

    not when Understatement is a style, not impulse control.

Said against

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It naturally appears in

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  • show restraint

    Both sides showed restraint during the tense march.

  • exercise restraint

    Editors exercised restraint with the graphic images.

  • admirable restraint

    Her admirable restraint kept the criticism fair.