Restraint

n. calm, thoughtful formal

What it means

Deliberate control that prevents excessive action, expression, or force.

Reach for it when praising proportionate self-control rather than passivity

The mediator showed restraint and let the angry speaker finish.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
warm
professional
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literary
  • everyday

    self-control

    Fits when a person governs an impulse

    Careful Self-control is personal, not stylistic.

  • warm

    moderation

    Fits when excess is avoided through balance

    Careful Moderation concerns degree more than inhibition.

  • professional

    discipline

    Fits when trained control supports a goal

    Careful Discipline is broader and sustained.

  • formal

    reserve

    Fits when expression remains measured

    Careful Reserve can seem emotionally distant.

  • literary

    forbearance

    Fits when someone patiently declines retaliation

    Careful Forbearance specifically involves provocation.

  • literary

    understatement

    Fits when artistic expression avoids excess

    Careful Understatement is a style, not impulse control.

Opposites 3

Common phrases 3

  • show restraint

    Both sides showed restraint during the tense march.

  • exercise restraint

    Editors exercised restraint with the graphic images.

  • admirable restraint

    Her admirable restraint kept the criticism fair.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Vealhurl, Southern England accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated