Forbearance

n. calm, kind formal

What it means

Patient self-control when facing annoyance or difficulty.

Reach for it when praising patient self-control in the face of provocation or difficulty

His forbearance kept the crowded meeting respectful and useful.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
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literary
  • everyday

    self-control

    Fits when management of one's reaction deserves direct praise

    Careful Self-control can be cold and says nothing about patience toward others.

  • warm

    patience

    Fits when calm waiting is the main virtue

    Careful Patience need not involve resisting anger or retaliation.

  • professional

    restraint

    Fits when an impulse is deliberately controlled

    Careful Restraint can be externally imposed and lacks patient goodwill.

  • professional

    tolerance

    Fits when difference or discomfort is endured

    Careful Tolerance may stop at endurance without forgiveness.

  • formal

    leniency

    Fits when a person with authority chooses a milder response

    Careful Leniency concerns penalties, not endurance of annoyance.

  • literary

    long-suffering

    Fits when prolonged difficulty is borne without complaint

    Careful Long-suffering suggests hardship and can romanticize mistreatment.

Opposites 3

  • impatience
  • retaliation
  • intolerance

Common phrases 3

  • show forbearance

    The chair continued to show forbearance during repeated interruptions.

  • remarkable forbearance

    She answered the accusation with remarkable forbearance.

  • exercise forbearance

    Both neighbors agreed to exercise forbearance while repairs continued.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Naomi Persephone Amethyst, American accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated