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Forbearance

n.calm, kindformal

What it means

Patient self-control when facing annoyance or difficulty.

Reach for it when praising patient self-control in the face of provocation or difficulty

His forbearance kept the crowded meeting respectful and useful.

Choose between these

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  • everyday

    self-control

    management of one's reaction deserves direct praise

    not when Self-control can be cold and says nothing about patience toward others.

  • warm

    patience

    calm waiting is the main virtue

    not when Patience need not involve resisting anger or retaliation.

  • professional

    restraint

    an impulse is deliberately controlled

    not when Restraint can be externally imposed and lacks patient goodwill.

  • professional

    tolerance

    difference or discomfort is endured

    not when Tolerance may stop at endurance without forgiveness.

  • formal

    leniency

    a person with authority chooses a milder response

    not when Leniency concerns penalties, not endurance of annoyance.

  • literary

    long-suffering

    prolonged difficulty is borne without complaint

    not when Long-suffering suggests hardship and can romanticize mistreatment.

Said against

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  • impatience
  • retaliation
  • intolerance

It naturally appears in

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  • show forbearance

    The chair continued to show forbearance during repeated interruptions.

  • remarkable forbearance

    She answered the accusation with remarkable forbearance.

  • exercise forbearance

    Both neighbors agreed to exercise forbearance while repairs continued.