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Forbearance

n.calm, kindformal

What it means

Patient self-control when facing annoyance or difficulty.

Reach for it when praising patient self-control in the face of provocation or difficulty

His forbearance kept the crowded meeting respectful and useful.

Choose between these

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  • everyday

    self-control

    management of one's reaction deserves direct praise

    not when Self-control can be cold and says nothing about patience toward others.

  • warm

    patience

    calm waiting is the main virtue

    not when Patience need not involve resisting anger or retaliation.

  • professional

    restraint

    an impulse is deliberately controlled

    not when Restraint can be externally imposed and lacks patient goodwill.

  • professional

    tolerance

    difference or discomfort is endured

    not when Tolerance may stop at endurance without forgiveness.

  • formal

    leniency

    a person with authority chooses a milder response

    not when Leniency concerns penalties, not endurance of annoyance.

  • literary

    long-suffering

    prolonged difficulty is borne without complaint

    not when Long-suffering suggests hardship and can romanticize mistreatment.

Said against

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  • impatience
  • retaliation
  • intolerance

It naturally appears in

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  • show forbearance

    The chair continued to show forbearance during repeated interruptions.

  • remarkable forbearance

    She answered the accusation with remarkable forbearance.

  • exercise forbearance

    Both neighbors agreed to exercise forbearance while repairs continued.

Where this comes from

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.