Abstemious

adj. thoughtful, resilient formal

What it means

Habitually moderate in food, drink, or other consumption.

Reach for it when praising deliberate restraint where appetite could become excessive

The abstemious traveler packed lightly and declined every unnecessary luxury.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
professional
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literary
  • everyday

    frugal

    Fits when careful spending and use of resources matter

    Careful Frugal concerns economy, not restraint in eating or drinking.

  • everyday

    moderate

    Fits when avoiding extremes is the plain central idea

    Careful Moderate does not imply the notably spare habits of an abstemious person.

  • professional

    restrained

    Fits when controlled consumption should sound neutral

    Careful Restrained describes a single choice without establishing a habit.

  • formal

    sparing

    Fits when very little of a resource is deliberately used

    Careful Sparing can result from scarcity rather than chosen self-discipline.

  • formal

    temperate

    Fits when balanced self-restraint is a broader character quality

    Careful Temperate can describe climate or emotion and need not concern consumption.

  • literary

    ascetic

    Fits when self-denial is tied to a disciplined way of life

    Careful Ascetic is far stronger and may imply rejection of ordinary comforts.

Opposites 3

  • indulgent
  • gluttonous
  • excessive

Common phrases 3

  • abstemious habits

    Her abstemious habits made lavish business dinners uncomfortable.

  • abstemious lifestyle

    He adopted an abstemious lifestyle during the long expedition.

  • notably abstemious

    The host was notably abstemious despite the abundant feast.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Vealhurl, Southern England accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated