Positive character trait

Diplomatic

adj. Skilled at handling disagreement with tact and fairness.

4 ready sentences Updated Run by Adrian Nutiu

What it looks like

  • Helps two sides in a disagreement hear each other.
  • Finds the form of words both sides can accept.
  • Keeps a tense conversation civil without hiding the problem.

Fits when someone handles a disagreement so that each side can accept the result

Not when smoothing things over hides a problem that needs a decision

How to say it

Replace the brackets with what the person actually did.

Fills [Name] in the reference and the report card comment, ready to copy.

  • Resume line
    Mediated [number] [disputes between teams, suppliers or tenants], reaching agreement in [number or share] without [legal action or escalation].
  • Reference or recommendation
    [Name] is diplomatic: when [two departments or partners] were at odds over [issue], they brought both sides to an agreement that held.
  • Report card comment
    [Name] is diplomatic in group work and helps classmates settle disagreements fairly.
  • In a story, shown not told
    Both brothers wanted the house. She waited until they had run out of words, then asked each of them what their father would have said.
Example

The diplomatic chair let both families speak before the vote.

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