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Well-behaved

adj.calm, kindeveryday

What it means

Acting with the self-control and consideration expected in a particular setting.

Reach for it when describing conduct that is orderly and appropriate without claiming obedience is a moral virtue

The well-behaved dog waited beside the table without begging or blocking the aisle.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    an angel

    when affectionate exaggeration about easy behavior is clearly welcome

    not when Calling someone an angel can feel patronizing and is unsuitable for formal evaluation.

  • everyday

    obedient

    when following a legitimate instruction is the narrow fact

    not when Obedient can reward submission and should not replace praise for judgment or kindness.

  • everyday

    polite

    when manners toward other people are the exact strength

    not when Polite does not cover quiet, safe conduct by an animal or child.

  • warm

    respectful

    when regard for boundaries and people deserves emphasis

    not when Respectful behavior may include principled disagreement rather than easy compliance.

  • professional

    cooperative

    when working agreeably with others is the useful behavior

    not when Cooperative may involve active help, while well-behaved can mean merely not disrupting.

  • professional

    disciplined

    when trained self-control supports reliable conduct

    not when Disciplined sounds demanding and can describe habits unrelated to social behavior.

  • formal

    orderly

    when absence of disruption matters to the setting

    not when Orderly can praise neat sequence without saying anyone acted considerately.

  • literary

    mannerly

    when good manners suit a slightly old-fashioned voice

    not when Mannerly is rare and focuses on etiquette rather than broader self-control.

Said against

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  • disruptive
  • unruly
  • misbehaved

It naturally appears in

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  • well-behaved child

    The well-behaved child still felt free to ask why the rule existed.

  • well-behaved dog

    A well-behaved dog stayed close when cyclists passed.

  • generally well-behaved

    The class was generally well-behaved even during the noisy experiment.

Where this comes from

For people, especially children, specify the considerate behavior when possible instead of equating goodness with compliance.

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.