Pleasantry

n. kind, joyful everyday

What it means

A light, courteous remark used to make social contact agreeable.

Reach for it when naming a small conversational kindness rather than substantive discussion

One pleasantry about the garden eased them into the difficult meeting.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
playful
everyday
warm
formal
  • playful

    banter

    Fits if friendly teasing and quick replies create the warmth

    Careful Banter is livelier and risks an edge that a pleasantry lacks.

  • everyday

    greeting

    Fits when where the words specifically acknowledge someone's arrival

    Careful A greeting opens contact but need not be witty or agreeable.

  • everyday

    small talk

    Suits a brief exchange about safe, ordinary topics

    Careful Small talk is a whole conversational mode rather than one cheerful remark.

  • warm

    kind word

    Fits when genuine encouragement matters more than social convention

    Careful A kind word may address a serious need rather than simply smooth conversation.

  • formal

    courtesy

    Fits when the remark functions mainly as respectful social conduct

    Careful Courtesy includes actions and manners, not only spoken words.

  • formal

    nicety

    Suits a conventional detail of polite interaction

    Careful Nicety can suggest fussy protocol and may sound less sincere.

Opposites 3

  • insult
  • barb
  • reproach

Common phrases 3

  • exchange pleasantries

    They paused to exchange pleasantries before opening the agenda.

  • opening pleasantry

    An opening pleasantry gave late arrivals time to settle quietly.

  • social pleasantry

    The usual social pleasantry grew into a thoughtful conversation.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Vealhurl, Southern England accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated