Gentleman

n. kind, thoughtful warm

What it means

A man whose conduct is notably courteous, honorable, and considerate.

Reach for it when praising a man's behavior when the gendered traditional term is welcome

He remained a gentleman throughout the difficult negotiation.

Words to choose between 5

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
playful
everyday
warm
formal
  • playful

    gent

    Fits when a brief informal label suits friendly conversation

    Careful Gent can sound dated, affected, or merely identify a man.

  • everyday

    courteous man

    Fits when polite consideration is the exact behavior being praised

    Careful Courtesy alone does not establish the broader integrity associated with gentleman.

  • warm

    decent man

    Fits when basic kindness and moral reliability matter most

    Careful Decent is modest praise and lacks the cultivated manner of gentleman.

  • formal

    gentleperson

    Fits when a gender-neutral counterpart is needed in inclusive writing

    Careful Gentleperson is uncommon and may draw more attention to wording than conduct.

  • formal

    man of honor

    Fits when integrity and principled conduct are central

    Careful The phrase sounds solemn and says less about everyday courtesy.

Opposites 3

  • cad
  • boor
  • ruffian

Common phrases 3

  • perfect gentleman

    The rival captain was a perfect gentleman after the final whistle.

  • true gentleman

    A true gentleman made room for every voice at the table.

  • gentleman scholar

    The archive remembers him as a gentleman scholar with generous habits.

Usage notes

Keep in mind

Gentleman has historical class meanings and remains gendered. Courtesy or honorable person may fit more inclusive contexts.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Dvortygirl, American accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 3.0 Updated