Fastidious
What it means
Meaning 1
Very attentive to accuracy, cleanliness, and detail.
Reach for it when praising exacting care where accuracy, cleanliness, or finish matters
The fastidious conservator documented every tiny repair.
Meaning 2
Difficult to satisfy because preferences or standards are unusually exact.
Reach for it when naming burdensome selectiveness without disguising it as praise
The fastidious editor rejected every ambiguous caption.