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Esteem

n.thoughtful, kindformal

What it means

Deep, favorable respect for someone's character, worth, or ability.

Reach for it when naming durable respect rather than momentary approval

Her willingness to correct the record earned the esteem of former critics.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    high marks

    when approval can be expressed as an informal evaluation

    not when The phrase suggests a performance score rather than lasting personal respect.

  • everyday

    respect

    when recognizing worth, rights, or ability is central

    not when Respect can be basic or dutiful, while esteem is distinctly favorable and high.

  • warm

    admiration

    when appreciative wonder at a quality is prominent

    not when Admiration can focus on talent or beauty without the moral regard of esteem.

  • warm

    appreciation

    when gratitude for contribution matters

    not when Appreciation may concern an act or object and need not include high regard.

  • formal

    regard

    when favorable opinion should sound measured

    not when Regard ranges from neutral consideration to affection and is less clearly positive.

  • literary

    reverence

    when profound, almost sacred respect is justified

    not when Reverence places the person too far above ordinary human regard.

Said against

4
  • contempt
  • disrespect
  • scorn
  • disdain

It naturally appears in

3
  • high esteem

    Colleagues held the retiring nurse in high esteem.

  • earn esteem

    Leaders earn esteem by making the difficult correction in public.

  • mutual esteem

    Mutual esteem allowed the two scholars to disagree without caricature.

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