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Empathize

v.kind, thoughtfulwarm

What it means

To understand another person's feelings from within their point of view.

Reach for it when describing an effort to grasp what an experience feels like for someone else

Good editors empathize with the confused reader before revising the instructions.

Choose between these

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  • playful

    relate

    when shared experience creates immediate recognition

    not when Relating can center one's own similar story instead of attending to the other person.

  • everyday

    see their side

    when recognizing another viewpoint matters in disagreement

    not when Seeing a side concerns reasons and fairness, not necessarily the person's feelings.

  • everyday

    understand

    when grasping the person's position is sufficient

    not when Understanding may remain intellectual and never reach the emotional perspective.

  • warm

    sympathize

    when concern or pity is felt for someone's difficulty

    not when Sympathy looks toward the person; empathy tries to see from their position.

  • professional

    identify with

    when a strong perceived similarity creates connection

    not when Identification can project sameness onto experiences that differ in important ways.

  • literary

    enter into

    when imaginative participation suits reflective prose

    not when The expression is elevated and vague for everyday emotional support.

Said against

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  • disregard
  • dismiss
  • alienate
  • misread

It naturally appears in

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  • empathize with others

    Stories can help children empathize with others without pretending every life is alike.

  • difficult to empathize

    It was difficult to empathize until she heard the full sequence of events.

  • learn to empathize

    The exercise helps new managers learn to empathize before offering solutions.

Where this comes from

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.