Empathize

v. kind, thoughtful warm

What it means

To understand another person's feelings from within their point of view.

Reach for it when describing an effort to grasp what an experience feels like for someone else

Good editors empathize with the confused reader before revising the instructions.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
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  • playful

    relate

    Fits when shared experience creates immediate recognition

    Careful Relating can center one's own similar story instead of attending to the other person.

  • everyday

    see their side

    Fits when recognizing another viewpoint matters in disagreement

    Careful Seeing a side concerns reasons and fairness, not necessarily the person's feelings.

  • everyday

    understand

    Fits when grasping the person's position is sufficient

    Careful Understanding may remain intellectual and never reach the emotional perspective.

  • warm

    sympathize

    Fits when concern or pity is felt for someone's difficulty

    Careful Sympathy looks toward the person; empathy tries to see from their position.

  • professional

    identify with

    Fits when a strong perceived similarity creates connection

    Careful Identification can project sameness onto experiences that differ in important ways.

  • literary

    enter into

    Fits when imaginative participation suits reflective prose

    Careful The expression is elevated and vague for everyday emotional support.

Opposites 4

  • disregard
  • dismiss
  • alienate
  • misread

Common phrases 3

  • empathize with others

    Stories can help children empathize with others without pretending every life is alike.

  • difficult to empathize

    It was difficult to empathize until she heard the full sequence of events.

  • learn to empathize

    The exercise helps new managers learn to empathize before offering solutions.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Vealhurl, Southern England accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated