Defuse

v. calm, kind professional

What it means

To make a tense or dangerous situation calmer and less likely to cause harm.

Reach for it when praising an intervention that lowers conflict before it escalates

Her honest apology helped defuse the argument before it spread.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
warm
professional
formal
literary
  • everyday

    calm

    Fits when soothing people or a situation is enough

    Careful Calm may quiet emotion without addressing the source of danger.

  • warm

    ease

    Fits when tension diminishes gradually

    Careful Ease is too gentle for preventing imminent violence.

  • professional

    de-escalate

    Fits when reducing the intensity of conflict is the explicit goal

    Careful De-escalate can sound clinical in a personal apology.

  • professional

    resolve

    Fits when the underlying disagreement is actually settled

    Careful A situation can be defused while the dispute remains unresolved.

  • formal

    neutralize

    Fits when a threat is rendered ineffective

    Careful Neutralize can sound militarized and imply removing a person.

  • literary

    disarm

    Fits when warmth or candor removes hostility

    Careful Its figurative charm is wrong for a formal safety procedure.

Opposites 4

  • inflame
  • escalate
  • provoke
  • aggravate

Common phrases 4

  • defuse tension

    The facilitator used a short pause to defuse tension around the table.

  • defuse the situation

    A clear correction helped defuse the situation before rumors spread.

  • help defuse

    Inviting residents to inspect the plans may help defuse the dispute.

  • quickly defuse

    The supervisor quickly defused the exchange without dismissing either concern.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Vealhurl, Southern England accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated