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Deference

n.kind, thoughtfulformal

What it means

Respectful willingness to give weight to another person's judgment, wishes, or experience.

Reach for it when recognizing when respect leads someone to yield space or priority without surrendering all judgment

In deference to residents, the planners moved the listening session into the neighborhood.

Choose between these

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  • everyday

    respect

    when valuing another person's rights, ability, or standing is enough

    not when Respect does not necessarily involve yielding a choice, turn, or priority.

  • professional

    courtesy

    when polite consideration shapes behavior

    not when Courtesy may be conventional good manners rather than recognition of superior knowledge or standing.

  • formal

    acquiescence

    when someone accepts a decision without active objection

    not when Acquiescence may be reluctant or passive and does not prove genuine respect.

  • formal

    regard

    when thoughtful consideration for wishes or circumstances matters

    not when Regard can mean esteem or attention without the act of yielding implied by deference.

  • formal

    submission

    when one party accepts another's authority or control

    not when Submission removes agency and is wrong for voluntary, limited respect between equals.

  • literary

    reverence

    when profound respect for something sacred or deeply honored is intended

    not when Reverence reaches toward devotion, which overstates ordinary professional respect.

Said against

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  • defiance
  • disregard
  • presumption

It naturally appears in

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  • out of deference

    Out of deference to the family, reporters waited until the announcement was complete.

  • show deference

    New members showed deference to the technicians who understood the old system.

  • deference to experience

    Deference to experience did not prevent the apprentices from asking careful questions.

Where this comes from

The definition and the example on this page are written here. The dictionaries above ground which meaning is being described, not the wording.