Conciliatory

adj. calm, kind professional

What it means

Intended to reduce hostility and restore goodwill.

Reach for it when describing a tone, gesture, or proposal that opens a path away from conflict

Her conciliatory reply acknowledged the harm before suggesting a new meeting.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
playful
everyday
warm
professional
formal
literary
  • playful

    olive-branch

    Fits when a symbolic peace offering suits an informal modifier

    Careful The image is cliched and may overstate a small procedural gesture.

  • everyday

    cooperative

    Fits when willingness to work together matters most

    Careful Cooperation can begin without any prior hostility to reduce.

  • warm

    peacemaking

    Fits when active work toward ending conflict is central

    Careful Peacemaking is larger than one conciliatory message and can sound idealistic.

  • professional

    diplomatic

    Fits when tact protects relationships during disagreement

    Careful Diplomatic language may avoid offense while making no conciliatory concession.

  • formal

    placatory

    Fits when the immediate aim is to calm an angry person

    Careful Placatory can imply tactical appeasement without addressing the grievance.

  • literary

    appeasing

    Fits when a concession is meant to calm opposition

    Careful Appeasing can imply sacrificing principle or rewarding aggression.

Opposites 3

  • confrontational
  • inflammatory
  • hostile

Common phrases 3

  • conciliatory tone

    A conciliatory tone helped the correction land without avoiding responsibility.

  • conciliatory gesture

    Publishing the missing minutes was a conciliatory gesture.

  • conciliatory approach

    The conciliatory approach paired an apology with a concrete safeguard.

Usage notes

Keep in mind

Conciliatory does not mean surrendering rights, safety, or truthful accountability for the sake of calm.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: BirdHopper, American accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated