Chivalrous

adj. kind, thoughtful formal

What it means

Marked by principled courtesy, honor, and readiness to protect others.

Reach for it when praising considerate conduct with an old-fashioned code-of-honor flavor

His chivalrous response gave the rival full credit and shielded the junior player from blame.

Words to choose between 6

By register, from playful at the top to literary at the bottom. Tap a word to see when it fits.
everyday
warm
formal
literary
  • everyday

    courteous

    Fits when politeness and respect are all you need

    Careful Courtesy does not carry the protective or honor-bound element of chivalrous.

  • everyday

    protective

    Fits when safeguarding someone is the central act

    Careful Protectiveness can become controlling, while chivalry should preserve the other person's agency.

  • warm

    gentlemanly

    Fits when traditional male manners are intentionally being evoked

    Careful The gendered ideal excludes people and can reinforce outdated expectations.

  • formal

    honorable

    Fits when ethical integrity is more important than manners

    Careful An honorable action may be stern and need not be gracious.

  • literary

    gallant

    Fits when brave, polished attention suits the scene

    Careful Gallant can sound theatrical or romantically gendered.

  • literary

    noble

    Fits when high-minded character deserves elevated praise

    Careful Noble is much broader and may sound grander than the particular courtesy shown.

Opposites 3

  • discourteous
  • dishonorable
  • boorish

Common phrases 3

  • chivalrous gesture

    The chivalrous gesture let the injured opponent finish with dignity.

  • chivalrous conduct

    Her chivalrous conduct mattered more than the result of the match.

  • seem chivalrous

    An offer may seem chivalrous until it ignores what the other person wants.

Definitions and examples are written for this site. How words are chosen Recording: Vealhurl, Southern England accent, from Wikimedia Commons, CC BY-SA 4.0 Updated